Radical, Compassionate Childbirth Preparation

By Virginia Bobro,  Co-owner and Senior Workshop Facilitator, Birthing From Within

Radical, Compassionate Childbirth Preparation. What does this mean? We like to think that our holistic classes and workshop prepare anyone--pregnant women, dads, and birth professionals of all stripes--for the mystery of birth. Stepping into the unknown, the intensity, the surprises of birth isn't for the faint of heart. We are radical enough to know that positive thinking, book-learnin', and a doula may not be enough to get through the intensity of birth. Whether labor is fast and crazy, long and hard, ecstatic or mind-blowing, you really can't truly be fully prepared. So, what are Birthing From Within classes and professional workshops for?

We propose something radical, beyond affirmations, pretty pictures, and obstetrical facts. Seeing Birth as a Warrior's Journey means that we aren't so concerned with achieving a "natural" or "vaginal" birth, or, vaguely, "empowering women." (What does that mean, anyway?) Our focus is on preparing the Birth Warrior inside each woman--so that she is ready to do whatever it takes in each moment. Sometimes that will mean digging deep for the strength to keep going or to surrender to a power beyond her understanding. Sometimes it will mean doing "the next best thing" and having a cesarean birth, though she tried with every ounce of her being to avoid it. Sometimes it will mean looking "weak," moaning, crying, being confused or vulnerable. Sometimes it will mean making peace with not being able to speak up for herself, or not doing whatever it was she hoped she could do or say. Sometimes it will mean that the wise and compassionate action is having an induction or epidural.

Compassionate means: Reducing the anxiety and fear that expectant parents have as they approach their initiation into parenthood. In our classes, we don't make promises, and we don't make threats. So our childbirth classes and professional workshops go deeply into personal exploration, into the realm of the Mystery, mindfulness, intimacy, myth, art, emotions, beliefs, and learning from every part of who we are: body, mind, spirit, and soul. We strongly believe that our workshops and classes reduce or prevent emotional birth trauma, fear, burn-out, frustration, disappointment, and guilt-- for everyone at the birth.

When we struggle so hard--as birth activists or as pregnant women--to "get what we want," or achieve particular birth statistics, perhaps something is lost. Perhaps the outcome of the birth is none of our business and beside the point. Maybe... there is something more important to Psyche and the arc of our lives than "a good outcome."

We hold the strong belief that we are preparing true Birth Warriors: they do not hope, or distrust, or try to control. They do what needs to be done in the moment. She knows what to do when she doesn't know what to do.

Join our Birth Warrior tribe: take a Birthing From Within childbirth class or professional training.

Birth and life will never be the same.


Mccalla Hill
Mccalla Hill

February 25, 2015

“Perhaps the outcome of the birth is none of our business and beside the point. Maybe… there is something more important to Psyche and the arc of our lives than “a good outcome.” PERFECT.

Jessica Bullock
Jessica Bullock

January 22, 2015

Exactly why I love the BFW model. Y’all got it going on!

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